What we are offended by is really, for the most part up to us.

If our parents taught us to be offended because of the differences in someone elses race, religion, background or nationality, then in a way you are predisposed to being offended by someone elses differences because of what someone else told you.

But that doesn’t mean you’re forced to be offended because of what you were taught.

You can also make up your own mind.

Choosing what and what not to be offended by is really up to you. If you choose to not be offended by comments about your car or your clothes, but do choose to be offended by comments about your favorite sporting team, or national flag colors then you have decided that is a line that can not be crossed.

But what if you just let it roll off your back…after all, words are just words.

Blowing up because someone called you a name or sleared your side of a political argument or your religion and your reaction is to be offended by it then you may be setting yourself up for an unnecessary conflict.

In every situation you face you have to decide “Am I Offended?”

Being offended is also an easy way to describe what HATE really is.

Do you hate because someone really wronged you?

Or do you hate because you chose to be offended?

If you chose to be offended and hate was the outcome, chances are, you missed out on a chance to know a quality person. If you could have only looked past the “Offenses”.



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Every Wednesday from 8-10 pm (Los Angeles time) I do my weekly radio program “Brother Chris Violence’s Traveling Damnation Show” on Kosher Metal

I crank up the hottest new Metal from around the world and also do “Chris’ Classic Metal Corner” and feature 4 songs from Metals History. The show features my own brand of fun, some comedy skits and of course METAL.

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New Music, Nastier Attitude

New Music Update!

I’ve been working hard with Jon Du Bose on new music in various styles of Heavy Metal, from Speed Thrash to Doom and I have to say, I’m very excited on how they are turning out. Jon is an amazing composer and his arrangements and musical abilities are almost limitless.  I have also recruited Jamie Page (Trilogy, Black Alice) for some of the guitar solo’s and I have to say, they are super tasty and really alive. Of the two Doomy tracks, Jaime’s solo’s meld great with Jon’s arrangements and there is a natural power to them. The Speed Thrash songs are pure and classic. These are my favorite songs to do with lots of high energy and power.

When will they be done? I don’t know. There is no deadline and we are taking it easy and trying to digest them so they sound great to the ear. More to come…